Wednesday, December 4, 2013
Not In A Stable
Let's start with this:
Mary didn't ride into town while having contractions, then deliver that night. She and Joseph were probably there for a few weeks.
And the young couple wasn't turned away from every local hotel.
Bethlehem wasn't even big enough to support a commercial "inn".
They were actually staying with Joseph's relatives.
Oh, and Mary didn't give birth in a barn, or under the stars.
And I'm afraid it wasn't winter. The shepherds came, but they weren't shivering shepherds.
You probably know, too, that the wise men weren't there the night Jesus was born, and that we don't know how many of them there were.
Ken Bailey's Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes is likely my favorite book of the decade. The very first chapter (which is available as a free sample here) is what opened my eyes to a whole new nativity scene.
Fluent in Arabic, Bailey has spent forty years living and teaching New Testament in Egypt, Lebanon, Jerusalem, and Cyprus. He studies ancient, medieval, and modern commentaries and translations in Semitic languages— Syriac, Hebrew/Aramaic, and Hebrew. Drawing upon his expertise in Middle Eastern culture and his study of these eastern commentaries and traditions, he paints a truer picture of the birth of the Messiah.
"No room at the inn"
In Luke 2, the Greek word (katalyma or kataluma) translated as inn does not mean a commercial building with rooms for travelers. It refers to the guest room of a personal house (in Luke 22:10-12, it is translated as “upper room,” whereas in the parable of the good Samaritan the Greek word for a commercial inn is pandocheion). Most village homes in Bethlehem had two rooms - one for guests, one for the family. The family room also had an area, several feet lower, where the family animals could be brought in for the night.
When Mary and Joseph arrived at their relative's home, others were already using the guest room. So Mary and Joseph stayed in the lower part of the family room, where the animals also stayed through the night.
Why is Bailey so sure they were staying with family?
I've never found a Western nativity scene that included cousins or aunties. But Middle Eastern cultures have always valued family and hospitality. Mary and Joseph were traveling to Joseph's ancestral home. He would naturally have had relatives there, and they would have welcomed him. “To turn away a descendant of David in ‘the City of David’ would be an unspeakable shame on the entire village,” Bailey writes in Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes. Even if no one had room for them, they could have traveled just a little further to stay with Elizabeth and Zechariah.
"While they were there, the time came..."
Mary wasn't in labor when they arrived in Bethlehem. In the Greek, Bailey explains, Luke's text indicates that Mary spent the last stages of her pregnancy in Bethlehem. A literal translation might read, "While they were there, her days (plural) were fulfilled."
Jesus wasn't born in a barren, windswept stable in an unfriendly town where Mary labored afraid and nearly alone.
Jesus also wasn't born under a halo of fluffy winged angels who sang as Mary painlessly delivered a child while clean baby animals gazed adoringly at the manger.
Mary and Joseph spent the last weeks of pregnancy with their relatives in Bethlehem. Probably because of the census, both of the rooms in the house were full, so they stayed in the lower part of the house, where the animals spent the night. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born. God became man and was born into a family, a large, warm community of humble, broken people trying to care for each other. He cried and was washed, fed, and comforted, wrapped in a clean blanket and laid in a manger.
It's true. But isn't it also a better story? And one that will inform our family Christmas traditions, and even our decorating.
PS: Ken Bailey has also written a Christmas musical drama to reflect this more accurate telling of the Christmas story. If your church or family wants to check it out, it's available here.
(re-post from the archives)
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
Christmas Again
We create - songs, children, homemade marshmallows, snow sculptures, computer code, what have you - not because we're awesome at it, but because it's in our blood. We're made in the image of a Creator. Jesus, too, son of a carpenter, son of a Creator, used his hands to make things; and we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus.
Here are a few notes on the songs:
#1 - believe it or not, my daughter does not believe in santa claus, and in fact has already tried to disabuse her preschool classmates of their faulty beliefs
#2 - a classic reworked
#3 - my only contribution to this album. my brother david played banjo with me.
#4 - going sledding with you is my favorite thing to do, in snow time
#5 - what happened when I told Jack, "this album should have a romantic Christmas song on it." he recorded it while giving the kids a bath, hence the background noises
#6 - let's just call him rudolph the reindeer, not rudolph the red-nosed. c'mon people.
#7 - just some classic country-style mournful christmas singin', here. my brother john played djembe, and david played banjo
#8 - yoko ono wrote this song. seriously.
#9 -mash up of angels and santa
#10 - a kind of counterpoint to "Christmas Day" on our first album
#11 - i sincerely love this psalty this singing songbook classic.
Here are the lyrics to my one contribution. I wrote it thinking about types of Christ in the Old Testament, particularly the passover lamb and Isaac.
there was blood on the door frame
a ram in the thicket
there's the promise she laughed at
of hope for the wicked
you are
every good gift
from the father of lights
through the shadows that shift
are all things coming right
mothers are crying
fathers will strike
brothers are lying
it's for blessing we fight
the tree that we cut down
the ham that we carve
the babies we're nursing
the songs in our hearts
you are every good gift
the ram in the thicket
you are every good gift
all things coming right
So, which of Rosie's songs is your favorite?
Sunday, October 14, 2012
A few things in October
1. This boy, 18 months old, curly tendrils round his ears, sweet tooth from his mama, talking all the time: this, sister, go out, cheese, shoes, cheers, and aha! there it is! He's obsessed with clothes and children's' vitamins and still loves to be held.
2. This girl, "drawing" letters everywhere she goes (most recently on the bathroom floor in colored pencil), newly interested in the game of Memory, Duplo creations, and complicated jigsaw puzzles. She says, " Let's watch a show on Parmesan," and means the Amazon Prime app, because
3. No TV. We canceled our tv service! Lest you think we've actually given up shows, never fear: Hulu, amazon, netflix and PBS.com supply all our "needs".
And actually, Martin Clunes has been meeting most of those needs as Kipper (best, least annoying kids' show ever.) and as Doc Martin (new season on Netflix now- highly recommend).
4. Christmas music. When the first grey frost strikes- and it has- I find the hot cocoa and the holiday tunes hard to resist. So I'm still mostly abstaining, except for a quick Rosie Thomas binge. But there is this: remember four years ago, when Jack and I wrote and recorded a Christmas album? No, you don't remember? (Well, only blood relatives were allowed to listen, I believe.) Get excited: volume two is underway. That's all I have to say, for now.
Except. The Surfjohn [sic] Stevens Christmas Sing-A-Long: Seasonal Affective Disorder Yuletide Pageant On Ice is coming to Indianapolis, so my Christmas season will be complete.
5. Call the Midwife. A new PBS drama about London's East End in the 1950s. Really, need I say more?
6. Third parties. . Would you ever consider voting for a third party candidate for President? You know I don't like to get political (except when I do, and I'll leave you to go sifting through the four year old archives for that). I never feel educated enough to really debate things well, but I'm thinking about voting for a third party candidate this year. I don't trust Romney, and I'm disheartened by the way Obama has continued Bush's moves to expand the power of the office of the president - not to mention his drone wars....frankly, I'm leaning Green. How about you?
(P.S. - Relevant magazine did a good series on Christians who vote different ways.
And, is your church participating in Election Day Communion?)
Thursday, January 19, 2012
our second Christmas
We escaped grey, icy Upland for a few days this month and celebrated Christmas again, this time with our family in Georgia.
We also got to meet new baby Rocco Paul, who was just 12 days old when we arrived.
Before we left, we had an early birthday party for Rosie (she will be three! Next week!). Trick candles had been purchased by accident, but Rosie adored them. We had several minutes of hilarious fun with them.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
December in Little Rock
With weather into the sixties, we took every chance to enjoy the parks in Little Rock this December, playing at Pinnacle, Alsopp Park, the Rivermarket, & Two Rivers. The natural beauty of the Ozarks had us certainly thinking twice about the place we've chosen to call "home" for now.
We had three things to celebrate this December. First was Jimmy's engagement to EA, whom we all love. With her family we visited the Garvan Gardens Christmas lights.
Second was Jesus' birthday, which we celebrated with songs, fellowship, food &wine, gifts for each other, and gifts for people around the world via Compassion and World Vision. The gift for the whole family that was a hit was the board game Dominion. Rosie's favorites were binoculars and a magnifying glass (she is pictured here wearing every article from her entire dress-up box).
Third, of course, we celebrated Katie's 27th birthday with dinner at home one night and at YaYa's the next night.
It was a lovely trip, and as Rosie says, "I already miss my uncles - Uncle GDaddy, Uncle Mimi, John, David, and...John?" (Sorry, Jim, we're working on it.)
Monday, January 3, 2011
christmas vacation




Sunday, January 2, 2011
Saturday, January 1, 2011
a last christmas thought
This, a spiritual defense of a materialistic Christmas from Amy Julia Becker, was the best and most memorable Christmas thought for me this year. Here's a taste:
{Christmas} reflects the idea that God has entered into the material world, and through that entrance, God has declared that the material world is good and worth celebrating, if not in excess then at least through extravagant generosity.
Now, go read the whole thing.
Sunday, November 21, 2010
advent, christmas, tradition
And yet at least a few of those things do bring cheer to a winter season that can seem awfully gloomy. I don't want to have a Christmas where I don't get to see the shadows of the tree branches on the walls of a room lit only by twinkle lights. I'm not giving up peppermint mochas (you can keep the eggnog, though).
So I'm not quite sure how to reconcile these cultural traditions of the Christmas season with a celebration of the true reason for Christian joy at Christmas. In our family, I certainly want to try to keep these wintry delights present, but of lesser importance than our celebration of the true Light and Delight that came into the world when Jesus was born.
So while you'll find a miniature Christmas tree in our house (actually, two of them), decorated with lights and some of our favorite childhood ornaments (eventually, I'd like to decorate a tree with just ornaments that have special meaning related to the nativity story), and you'll find stockings waiting for presents on Christmas morning, and chewy peppermint candies too, I hope that the traditions which will stand out more for us and our children will be our advent traditions.
Advent Candles
There are four Sundays in Advent (this year, it begins November 28). On the first Sunday, the first candle is lit. On the second Sunday, the first and second candles are lit. Etc. And then on Christmas Day you light all four, as well as a fifth for Christmas. Each candle has its own meaning. In our family, we'll have a Bible verse to read for each candle, too.
We don't actually have "advent candles" yet- which should be purple - but we also won't be home for most of the advent season this year. We'll be traveling. So for now we're just using five candles which we already had as our advent candles.
Advent Calendar
You can find quite a few Advent calendars for sale online, and you can also find a lot of ideas for making your own. I think this is one of the best (you can find it on Amazon, but it's actually cheaper here). Although I do hate how blonde Mary and the angels are, the construction is excellent, and it's very user-friendly for kids, as you can see. Each day in December, the children can open one box and add a character to the scene. I've also written a little script that we'll read each day. Toddlers and preschoolers will have the story memorized in no time. We might move to a more sophisticated script as our kids get older, but for now it's this. The idea is that you read the same lines for the first four days, then you add a few lines every couple of days afterword, until Dec 24, when you're reading the whole story.
Day 1-4 (add the stars)
The world was dark because of sin. (Is. 9:2)
God said, “The true light that gives light to everyone is coming into the world!” (John 1:9)
Days 5-10 (add the wise men and camels)
God wrote his message in the Bible and in the sky. “A baby is coming to save you!” he said. (Is. 9:6)
Wise men read the message in the stars and began to follow them to find the baby Jesus.
Days 11-16 (add an angel, Mary, Joseph, donkey, and two cows)
An angel told Mary that she would be the mother of Jesus. While Mary was pregnant, she and Joseph traveled to Bethlehem to stay with Joseph’s family. The house was full of people, so they slept in the room with the animals.
Days 16-23 (add an angel, shepherds, sheep)
While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born.
An angel announced the good news to shepherds in a field nearby, who were keeping watch over their sheep at night. “Your savior was born today! He is Christ the Lord! You will find the baby laying in a manger.” (Luke 2:11-12)
Day 24 (add baby Jesus)
The shepherds hurried to find the baby Jesus, and they worshiped him and thanked God for sending a great light into the land of deep darkness.
Shepherd's Pouch
One of the traditions that Noel Piper wrote about was the tradition of a shepherd's pouch in which the family would collect money through December to give to a person or organization they had chosen. Whether or not we use an actual pouch, we will certainly emphasize a spirit of giving and an awareness of world Christianity as we celebrate Christmas. Perhaps we'll give a goat to a hungry family in Uganda. Certainly we'll send Christmas gifts to the children we sponsor through Compassion International. And maybe we'll try to do something locally, as well, like Angel Tree.
Songs
And we'll always have songs and dancing.
This is just the beginning!
Monday, November 15, 2010
the nativity story
Let's start with this:
Mary didn't ride into town while having contractions, then deliver that night. She and Joseph were probably there for a few weeks.
And the young couple wasn't turned away from every local hotel.
Bethlehem wasn't even big enough to support a commercial "inn".
They were actually staying with Joseph's relatives.
Oh, and Mary didn't give birth in a barn, or under the stars.
And I'm afraid it wasn't winter. The shepherds came, but they weren't shivering shepherds.
You probably know, too, that the wise men weren't there the night Jesus was born, and that we don't know how many of them there were.
Ken Bailey's Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes is likely my favorite book of the decade. The very first chapter (which is available as a free sample here) is what opened my eyes to a whole new nativity scene.
Fluent in Arabic, Bailey has spent forty years living and teaching New Testament in Egypt, Lebanon, Jerusalem, and Cyprus. He studies ancient, medieval, and modern commentaries and translations in Semitic languages— Syriac, Hebrew/Aramaic, and Hebrew. Drawing upon his expertise in Middle Eastern culture and his study of these eastern commentaries and traditions, he paints a truer picture of the birth of the Messiah.
"No room at the inn"
In Luke 2, the Greek word (katalyma or kataluma) translated as inn does not mean a commercial building with rooms for travelers. It refers to the guest room of a personal house (in Luke 22:10-12, it is translated as “upper room,” whereas in the parable of the good Samaritan the Greek word for a commercial inn is pandocheion). Most village homes in Bethlehem had two rooms - one for guests, one for the family. The family room also had an area, several feet lower, where the family animals could be brought in for the night.
When Mary and Joseph arrived at their relative's home, others were already using the guest room. So Mary and Joseph stayed in the lower part of the family room, where the animals also stayed through the night.
Why is Bailey so sure they were staying with family?
I've never found a Western nativity scene that included cousins or aunties. But Middle Eastern cultures have always valued family and hospitality. Mary and Joseph were traveling to Joseph's ancestral home. He would naturally have had relatives there, and they would have welcomed him. “To turn away a descendant of David in ‘the City of David’ would be an unspeakable shame on the entire village,” Bailey writes in Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes. Even if no one had room for them, they could have traveled just a little further to stay with Elizabeth and Zechariah.
"While they were there, the time came..."
Mary wasn't in labor when they arrived in Bethlehem. In the Greek, Bailey explains, Luke's text indicates that Mary spent the last stages of her pregnancy in Bethlehem. A literal translation might read, "While they were there, her days (plural) were fulfilled."
Jesus wasn't born in a barren, windswept stable in an unfriendly town where Mary labored afraid and nearly alone.
Jesus also wasn't born under a halo of fluffy winged angels who sang as Mary painlessly delivered a child while clean baby animals gazed adoringly at the manger.
Mary and Joseph spent the last weeks of pregnancy with their relatives in Bethlehem. Probably because of the census, both of the rooms in the house were full, so they stayed in the lower part of the house, where the animals spent the night. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born. God became man and was born into a family, a large, warm community of humble, broken people trying to care for each other. He cried and was washed, fed, and comforted, wrapped in a clean blanket and laid in a manger.
It's true. But isn't it also a better story? And one that will inform our family Christmas traditions, and even our decorating.
PS: Ken Bailey has also written a Christmas musical drama to reflect this more accurate telling of the Christmas story. If your church or family wants to check it out, it's available here.
Sunday, November 14, 2010
43 of 52

Yesterday I pulled out our Christmas decorations. It's early, I know; but we'll be gone for half a week at Thanksgiving, and we'll be gone for the last two weeks of December too, so setting up for Christmas now will just give us one month with Christmas in our house.
Plus, Jack was away at a TESOL conference, I was bored stiff, and the weather turned from gorgeous to cold and grey. I was in need of twinkly lights.
We don't have a lot in the way of Christmas decorations. This is the first year in our four years of marriage that we have both a child and a house of our own, so it's the first year that I've really put any thought into the Christmas traditions that I'd like to establish in our family.
Jack's mom gave me this book at my bridal shower (it was thoughtfully themed a "book shower" - some people know me so well). The book has been extremely helpful as I've been thinking through what traditions are, why we should have them, and how we should establish them. It has influenced me quite a bit in planning for our own Peterson family traditions....which I'll share with you in another post someday soon :-)
And when your children say to you, "What do you mean by this service?" you shall say, "It is the sacrifice of the Lord's Passover, for he passed over the houses of the people of Israel in Egypt" (Exodus 12:26-27). Moses assumes children will ask why. And he instructs parents to give an answer that speaks of reality.
...
Year after year the traditions were there, a shadow of our God who is rock-steady and dependable year after year after year. When God created seasons and memories and celebrations -- traditions -- he knew our need for security. And he knew that even paltry red Jello year after year can provide enough steadiness to keep us going until we find our only real security in him.
But how much more of God is there to find when we are on the lookout, when we shape our "everyday" and "especially" around him. God will show himself in special and new ways when we celebrate him.
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
fleece
So yesterday I made her some fleece slippers to wear inside the house. Cotton socks are just not enough. I made lots of fleece booties for baby gifts last year, so I used my leftover fleece. For the soles I used a leather suede skirt that I bought at the goodwill and have been using for projects. I wanted to try a new pattern, so I found this one and based Rosie's new boots on it. Overall, I'm pretty happy with it. (Although I might pull off those homey felt flowers and replace them with snowflakes or something, later.)
Then, this morning Rosie was playing with Daddy's hat, and giggling because it was so big that it looked funny on her. So I decided to use up some more of the fleece making her a truly funny hat. This is about the easiest thing you could sew, but there's a free pattern here if you're interested. It would probably be cuter with a patterned fleece instead of a solid.
Anyway. This is to make you laugh.
("Silent night, holy night, all is......baby Jesus sleeping in bed.")
Saturday, December 19, 2009
Sunday, November 29, 2009
a good time
Saturday, January 5, 2008
what does auld lang syne mean again?
If you got our Christmas letter, then you saw our list of some favorite things from 2007:
movies
bridge to terebithia
nancy drew
danielson: a family movie
i'm not there
once
cds
okkervil river - the stage names
rosie thomas - these friends of mine
panda bear - person pitch
of montreal - hissing fauna
tv shows
friday night lights
30 rock
northern exposure
books
Persepolis - Marjane Satrapi
The Solace of Leaving Early - Haven Kimmel
Maisie Dobbs - Jacqueline Winspear
Broken for You - Stephanie Kallos
Divine Conspiracy - WIllard
places
Enchanted Rock,TX
Santa Fe, NM
Holly Lake, Grand Tetons
Montana Coffee Traders
Ha Long Bay, Vietnam
Semiahmoo Resort, WA
One of my favorite things of 2008 is the website that plays Jack's songs: www.myspace.com/gladysrocksongs. You should listen and let me know what you think.
To celebrate the new year, Jack and I retreated to a cozy cabin in the shadow of Mt. Ranier. To the Wildbird suite at Jasmer's actually. We went snowshoeing for the first time, and we enjoyed the snowy view from our place in the outdoor hot tub.
Tomorrow our Linda is going home to Indonesia. We will miss her!




